1 九月第二首英文兒歌
Eentsy weentsy spider went up the water sprout
Down came the rain and wash the spider out
Out came the sun and dried up all the rain
And Eentsy weentsy spider went up the sprout again
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感悟：這首兒歌我跟閨女接觸的最早，可是其中有些詞一直沒有確定，像"dried up all the rain" ，up 被弱讀的直接聽不清。這次抱著弄清一切的態度，聽寫出了所有詞匯，終于可以跟閨女好好一起唱了，認真一點不能糊弄！
2 review the "habit 2 start with the end"
On the way to my office , I listen to the audio files of habit 2 .
What is your end?
Covey introduced a thought-provoking mental experience, your own funeral. And then he shared a question "what kind of person do you want your relatives and family members think?
What do want to leave for your associate ?
What do you want to leave for the society ? " I think that means what is your mission of your life ? What is your goal in your short term? "
3 everything is created twice
First we plan out the future , then we apply the blueprint into practice. Like the carpenter , " measure twice , then act " . The other sentence I love is " what lies behind us and in front of us is tiny compared what lies within us "
The direction and destination is more important than the postive attitude and diligence . Like the one said wrong direction is like " straighten a chair in Titanic " , if we choose the wrong and doomed direction , maybe we double our speed , that just accelerats the failure . Like I took the interior decoration in 2011, I spent a whole moth to design every equipment in our house , changed the blueprint for server all times, when I am ready , the project proceeded fluently .
3 self-leadership
What is leardship ?
Peter duruke " leadership is doing the right thing, management is doing the thing right "
As I witnessed and experienced , the society and schools forced the student learned tons of knowledge, they didn't think why ? Just a stupid certification paper? They taught a lot of techniques how to pass kinds of exams . What about the competences ?
Friends around me they are passionate , they have dreams for their future , they want to earn a lot of money , have a bit house. But they know nothing about their core part . Who they are? Why they exist ?
4 the end means a new start
Covey maybe shared a action plan at the end party of this chapter , for me it not adequate , when I turned to the postive psychology in 2014, I found that we , each huamnbeing , are unique. But how to distinguish our talents and potentials? How to measure our personality? How to know our motivation desire ?
感悟：從開始學習心理學開始，，一直困擾我的問題是對于性格差異很大的團隊該用什么來驅動。最初我天真的想應該是高于任何物質金錢之類，匹配人內心深層次的欲望的東西才夠資格。后來加入了頭馬，我慢慢懂得了需要的是使命?；蛟S只有使命能讓我們摒棄一己之私，摒棄對方的那些無關緊要的瑕疵，隨時為對方做好補位，隨時準備為了團隊奉獻自己，沒有完美的個人，只有完美的團隊。團隊成員具有共同使命感高于一切，選擇匹配的成員凌駕于通過培養和訓練做出的后期努力。
