處理好自己與身邊人的關系，只要記住三句話

很多時候，人們往往善于忘記別人對自己的好處，而一旦出現無心的冒犯，卻總是耿耿于懷，變成了話不投機半句多，甚至老死不相往來。想想我們身邊是否有這樣的事例，而人生在世，不可避免地要與人交往，要想過得愉快，就要處理好自己與身邊人的關系。

處理好人際關系，要記住三句話，“看人長處、幫人難處、記人好處”。

01. 看人長處

人無完人，每個人都有缺點，如果你總是盯著別人的缺點不放，你們的關系肯定好不了，反之，學會換位思考，多看別人的優點，你就會發現，越看別人就越順眼，就能與人處好關系，就懂得用人所長。一枝獨秀不是春，百花齊放春滿園。只有懂得與人友好相處的人，才能成事。懂得用人所長，你也就擁有了領袖的素質。

02. 幫人難處

就是在別人困難的時候，伸出你的援助之手，可能是舉手之勞，也可能需要一定的付出，只要力所能及就好，錦上添花，不如雪中送炭。

人在春風得意的時候你幫他，他不一定會記得你。在別人有難的時候你給予了幫助，人家會記你一輩子的好。在你有困難的時候，人家也會同樣幫助你，你的路才會越走越寬。比如人生中常常遇到的一些事，生病住院、紅白喜事、天災人禍等等，你的幫助、你的一聲問候、甚至是一條短信，都會猶如春風水暖，徹底拉近彼此間的心理距離。kaobiguo.net

03. 記人好處

就是要常懷感恩之心。要知道，每一個人從出生到死亡，每一點進步、每一滴收獲，都離不開父母、家人、朋友的幫助。永遠記得別人的好，才能每天擁有陽光，每天都有朋友相伴，終生都有幸福相隨；相反，總是記得別人的不是，只會苦了自己。


























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