當我開始真正愛自己
——卓別林，寫于70歲生日當天
當我開始真正愛自己，
我才認識到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，
都只是提醒我：活著，不要違背自己的本心。
今天我明白了，這叫做
『真實』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我才懂得，把自己的愿望強加于人，
是多么的無禮，就算我知道，時機并不成熟，
那人也還沒有做好準備，
就算那個人就是我自己，
今天我明白了，這叫做
『尊重』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我不再渴求不同的人生，
我知道任何發生在我身邊的事情，
都是對我成長的邀請。
如今，我稱之為
『成熟』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我才明白，我其實一直都在正確的時間，
正確的地方，發生的一切都恰如其分。
由此我得以平靜。
今天我明白了，這叫做
『自信』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我不再犧牲自己的自由時間，
不再去勾畫什么宏偉的明天。
今天我只做有趣和快樂的事，
做自己熱愛，讓心歡喜的事，
用我的方式，以我的韻律。
今天我明白了，這叫做
『單純』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我開始遠離一切不健康的東西。
不論是飲食和人物，還是事情和環境，
我遠離一切讓我遠離本真的東西。
從前我把這叫做“追求健康的自私自利”，
但今天我明白了，這是
『自愛』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我不再總想著要永遠正確，不犯錯誤。
我今天明白了，這叫做
『謙遜』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我不再繼續沉溺于過去，
也不再為明天而憂慮，
現在我只活在一切正在發生的當下，
今天，我活在此時此地，
如此日復一日。這就叫
『完美』。
當我開始真正愛自己，
我明白，我的思慮讓我變得貧乏和病態，
但當我喚起了心靈的力量，
理智就變成了一個重要的伙伴，
這種組合我稱之為，
『心的智慧』。
我們無須再害怕自己和他人的分歧，
矛盾和問題，
因為即使星星有時也會碰在一起，
形成新的世界，
今天我明白，
這就是
『生命』
When I really began to love yourself ? Chaplin -, written in 70 - year - old birthday on the day.
When I really began to love yourself, I didn't realize that all the emotional pain and suffering, All just remind me: alive, don't against their own the heart. ?Today I see. This is called ?『 real 』.
When I really began to love yourself, I didn't know, his own people wish upon, How much rude, even if I know, time is not mature, The man also don't have a ready, Even if that person is myself, Today I see. This is called ?『 respect 』.
When I began to love yourself, I'm not hungry for different life, I know that any happen by my side of things, I grew up are for the invitation. ?Today, I call it ?『 mature 』.
When I started his true love, I didn't know, I actually has always been at the right time, The right place, what happened is just right. ?Thus I was able to calm. ?Today I see. This is called ?『 confidence 』.
When I started his true love, I don't sacrifice their free time, No longer to sketch what grand tomorrow. ?Today I just do interesting things and happiness, Do their love, joy to heart of the matter, With my way to my rhythm. ?Today I see. This is called ?『 pure 』.
When I started his true love, I began to away from the unhealthy all things. ?Whether it is a diet and characters, or things and environment, I let me away from all away from the real thing. ?Once upon a time I put this is called "the pursuit of healthy self-serving," But today I see. It is ?『 self-love 』.
When I started his true love, I don'When I started his true love, I don't always wanted to the right to forever, don't make mistakes. ?Today I see, this is called ?『 humility 』.
When I started his true love, I no longer continue to indulge in the past, No longer for tomorrow and concerns, Now I live in only everything is happening right now, Today, I live here at this time, Such a day after day. This is called 『 perfect 』.
When I started his true love, B: I see, I thought can make the poor and I became sick, But when I evoke the mind strength, Rational becomes an important partner, This combination I call it, 『 heart the wisdom of the 』.
We don't have to fear to yourself and others differences, Contradictions and problems, Because even stars sometimes touch together, Form new world, Today, I understand that This is 『 life 』 .
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