唉,最近在批改作文的時候也發現了一些同學寫的作文雖然非常好,但是跟所處的階段并不是相匹配,所以為什么大家想一想就知道了,也許他是請教了高年級的同學幫忙寫吧,因為寫出來的文章水平并不像他之前考試所表達出來的,比如說這篇作文你會覺得像是一個高中的。水平嗎?我覺得并不像。
Second, comfort him. Imagine how you would treat that child if it were your own. Will you tell him that the quarrel between your parents is their own problem, not your fault; will you hug him tightly and say to him "I know you are lonely, let's play with you, okay"; He pulled to the kitchen and brought him the hot meal he had just made. These behaviors are actually compensation for the lack of childhood, and they are the needs of the inner child. This seemingly naive behavior is actually very necessary. Finally, be with him. Accompanying means never leaving, and it also means tolerance. When you see your inner child, you will find that he also makes mistakes. He is vulnerable and sensitive when facing others. Sometimes he is lazy, sometimes tired, and sometimes he sets goals, but he can’t achieve them anyway. . At this time, it's good to be with him. Do not accuse, let alone force. Slow down and wait for him to slowly gain strength and self-integration.
想象一下
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