你在用誰的版本來衡量自己的人生

    每天,我們活在這個熙熙攘攘的世界,聽到四面八方的聲音,看到不同版本的人生故事。有過得意時刻,是因為發(fā)現有那么多人不如我們呢,有過失意時刻,是因為發(fā)現原來比我們高白富帥美又才華橫溢的人多的是呢……
   于是,我們在小片刻的歡愉后,發(fā)現了世界的真相,開始為自己的明天焦慮。
   無意中,我看到了一個微博轉發(fā)的消息,是英文版。其實,你看過下面的這些英文后,也會知道,這是個世界級現象。

   New York is 3 hours ahead of California but it does not mean that California is slow or that New York is fast. Both are working based on their own "Time Zone."

   Some one is still single. Someone got married and waited 10 years before having a child. There is another who had a baby within a year of marriage.

   Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a good job and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately.

   Someone became CEO at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.Everyone works based on their 'Time Zone.

    People can have things worked out only according to their pace.Work in your “time zone”.

    Your colleagues, friends, younger ones might seem to go ahead of you.

    May be some might seem behind you.

    Everyone is in this world running their own race on their own lane in their own time. God has a different plan for everybody.Time is the difference. Obama retires at 55, Trump resumes at 70.

    Don't envy them or mock them, it's their 'Time Zone.' You are in yours!

    Hold on, be strong, and stay true to yourself. All things shall work together for your good.

    You’re not late.You are not early, you’re very much on time. Stay blessed.

    So,別猶豫,別懷疑,別彷徨了,按照自己的節(jié)奏崛起,是可以的。
    但前提是做個說到做到的行動派。不然,下次你還是只有驚嘆別人才是高白富帥美又才華橫溢的人。
    既然這樣,那,首先,你有自己的人生規(guī)劃了嗎?
    在確定人生戰(zhàn)略方向的層面,我們既要有詳細的計劃,也要給偶然的機遇留下點空間,因為這種偶然,可能就是老天送給你的禮物。
   現在非常流行的暢銷書《從0到1》,作者彼得·蒂爾,畢業(yè)于斯坦福大學法學院,本來想要成為最高法院的書記員,結果面試的時候被刷下去了,但正是這樣,才有了后來的硅谷創(chuàng)投教父。他可沒把非要在所學專業(yè)上有所成就當做唯一目標,書記員也不是他人生成功的唯一參照標準。發(fā)現熱愛,積累優(yōu)勢,直到領先大部分人,你就勝出了。
   其次,為了確保我們能實現自己的目標,我們要時刻留心自己的時間、精力分配。如果你沒有花心思往確定的方向走,那么你的目標就很難實現了。
    先不說宏大的人生理想,我們就說說今天的目標,定好了要完成一篇文章加配圖的推送工作,或者要完成一份總結的起草工作,那就要圍繞主題展開素材編輯和材料加工了,動手開始是有效的解決辦法。如果坐下來還沒5分鐘,突然想到還要喝水、上廁所、還有朋友圈沒刷完、淘寶看好的東東等著付款……那今天的計劃恐怕拖著拖著就完不成了。
    長此以往,小目標一個個完成積累成了大目標的實現,反之,小目標的一個個拖延甚至化為泡影,導致了大目標也成為虛談。
   
   最后,相信堅持的力量。
   世間萬物,各有各的周期,各有各的軌道。春夏秋冬每個季節(jié)都有或艷麗、或孤傲、或不屈的花朵盛開,早或晚,美麗的程度有折扣嗎?關鍵在于,你不停地拼命吸取大自然的養(yǎng)分,并且在適合你的季節(jié),不早不晚地,傲嬌地盛開了。
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