What are some of the lessons one should definitely learn at their 20s?
有哪些20多歲時一定要學會的經驗？
1.Having a job is not a bad idea.It puts food on your table, it pays your bills.
1.有工作并不是壞主意。它可以提供桌上的吃的，可以幫你付賬單。
2.Your dad/mum is right.Believe me, they're right with most of the things you don't believe in.
2.你的父母是對的。相信我，大多數你不相信對的事他們都是對的。
3.There is nothing as overnight success.Work hard for your goals.
3.沒有什么事是一夜就成功的。為你的目標努力吧。
4.You might still fail even when you work fucking hard.The truth is, you don't have absolute control over anything. So, be flexible.
4.你可能非常的努力也還是失敗了。真相是，你對任何事情都沒有覺得控制權。因此，靈活點
5.Your family members are the most important people in your life.Respect them, in most cases, they matter more than your friends.
5.你的家庭成員是你生命中最重要的人。尊重他們，大多數情況下，他們比你的朋友重要多了。
6.You're going to fail hard.You will, take it as your achievement.
6.你要努力失敗。你會把它當做你的成就。
7.No one cares.Except your parents, even your friends might not care.
7.沒有人關心，除了你的父母，甚至你的朋友們可能都不關心。
8.No one will help you.Only you can help yourself.
8.沒人會幫你。只能你能幫你自己。
9.This is not the time for you to ruin your body.Take good care of your body, you can't undo the damages in your 30s and 40s.
9.現在不是毀掉自己身體的時候。照顧好的你的身體，不然30多歲和40多歲的時候你可能避免不了損傷。
10.Don't waste time.Same with your health, you can't gain it back.
10.不要浪費時間，和你的身體一樣，你重新獲得不了時間和身體。
11.You're responsible for everything.Don't push them to anyone else.
11.你要對很多事負責，不要推給其他人。
12.He/she might not be the one.You might experience serious heartbreak, but it's not the end of the world.
12.他或她可能不是你命中注定的那個人。你可能會經歷過幾次難過心碎，但是這不是世界的終點。
13.You need to stop complaining.It does nothing and changes nothing.
13.你需要停止抱怨，抱怨一點用都沒有，改變不了任何事。
14.Start budgeting.Money is fucking important, learn to manage it.
14.開始做預算。金錢太重要了，學會如何管理。
15.Use YOLO the right way. You only live once, so do something meaningful.
15.你只會活一次，所以多做一些有意義的事吧。
16.Read more.It’s time to communicate with solid substance.
16.多閱讀。是時候和書多交流了。
17.You're not that special.If you really want to become someone, work for it.
17.你不是特殊的。如果你真的要成為什么人，努力吧。
18.Your weaknesses don't matter.So, please don't be afraid to make mistakes. No one expects you to be perfect.
18.有弱點沒關系。不要害怕犯錯。沒有人會期待你是完美的。
19It's not the last 3 years of your life.Don't live in a hurry.
19.這并不是你生命中的最后三年，不要活的這么匆忙。
20.Consistency is the key.Every achievement requires the test of time, master something with consistency.
20.穩定也是關鍵。每一次成就都需要時間的考驗，掌握一些穩定性的東西。
21. Outcome is not equal to intention.Most people have good intention, but the outcome might be varied. Don't judge anyone based on an outcome. And never define yourself based on your outcome too. Double check on the intention.
21.結果并不等同于意圖。大多數人都有好的出發點，結果結果大相徑庭。不要只從結果判斷其他人。所以也不要只用結果判斷自己。仔細檢查自己的目的。
22. Happiness comes from within.Stop searching and chasing for external things to fulfill yourself. None of them will and you will end up with bigger disappointment. Happiness is already there, within yourself.
22.幸福來自內心。停止尋找并追求外在的東西來滿足你自己。沒有人會這樣做，你最終會更失望。幸福就在你自己的心里。
原文作者及出處：Dean Yeong,，from Quora
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