五一在余姚過了一夜,本想去影院看最近剛上映的《喜歡你》,路不熟,小地方人少,看完電影快十點覺得不安全,手機只剩10%的電,最后還是在酒店找電影看。
這部《遺愿清單》《The Bucket List》很早就想看,能在酒店看掉,也算是不浪費一次在外過夜,瞬間感覺為旅途增值。[兔子]
這部電影對我來說是屬于這類電影:看完一遍想再看一遍,第二遍聽寫下所有臺詞,校對一遍后再看第三遍,然后每天值得讀讀背背電影臺詞,尤其是經典旁白。
開頭旁白:
It's difficult to understand someone's life. Some people will tell you to measure by the one they left behind. Some believe that it can be measured by faith. Some say by love. Other folks say life has no meaning at all. Me? I believe that you measure yourself by the people who measure themselves by you.
在埃及,Carter引用埃及人去世后靈魂能不能上天堂的話來問Edward:
Have you found your joy in your life?
Has your life brought joy to other people ?
這兩句是整部片子對我觸動最大的臺詞。從來沒有思考過這兩個問題。人生數載,意義不過就是圍繞這兩個問題展開,不管物質方面,精神方面,生理方面。
他們去高空跳傘(sky diving),紋身,賽車,去了非洲大草原,埃及金字塔,印度泰姬陵,中國長城、西藏看雪山,香港維多利亞港...
然而這些事情的實現并不難,難的是我們總沉浸在自己認為我們需要的忙碌中,拖著自己畫的大圈圈疲憊地往前,而忘了應該要給自己適當減負,如戴著披風、坐著雪橇,優美地劃出一個個人生曲度向前。
Carter死前給Edward的信中寫道:
Everyone is everyone.
Our lives are streams,flowing into the same river,towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the forest. Find the joy in your life. Close your eyes,and let the tears take you home.
Carter最后的旁白:
I know when he died ,his eyes were closed,and his heart was open. ?And I'm pretty sure he is happy with this final resting place. Because he was buried on a mountain. And that was against the law.
當最后骨灰被帶到珠峰頂,登山者把那份bucket list上最后一條也是寫下的第一條:Witness something truly majestic. 劃掉時,那種呈現出來的人生圓滿度是100%的。不能保證毫無遺憾,但在人生最后幾個月鼓起勇氣去做最想做的,去最心之所至的地方,這樣的故事讓觀影者潸然淚下。
除了給人們在生時就努力去為了自己而活,還給予觀影者暗示,人的一生中最重要的還是家庭,沒有什么比家更讓人喜悅。
我在給學生們教Family這個單詞的時候,深深覺得這個單詞的字母組成實在是妙不可言,family=father and mother,I love you.[心]這一點在我為人母的日子中,有越來越深的同意與理解。