“你在某種關系中受苦，因為你想控制這個關系，凡是你想控制的，都在控制你”---unknow

You suffer in a relationship, because you want to control this relationship, and whatever you want to control, is controlling you"

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十字架代表的就是關系，橫的代表你和人的關系要夠寬，豎的代表你和神的關系要夠深. ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ??

?The cross represents the relationship, the horizontal represents the relationship between you and man whether is wide enough, and the vertical represents the relationship between you and God whether is deep enough.

"很顯然只有在關系互動的過程中，我的真相才會被揭露，不是么？關系就是一面鏡子，透過這面鏡子我會看到自己的真相，但是大部分人并不喜歡自己的真相，于是便開始修正這面鏡子所映照出來的狀態” ???------- 克里希那穆提 ?《生命之樹 》 ?Obviously, it's only in the process of interaction that my truth is revealed, right? The relationship is a mirror, through this mirror I will see my own truth, but most people do not like the truth of their own, so they began to correct the mirror reflected the state” ---the tree of life.

“最好的關系，是我們見過對方所有的樣子，然后我們接受對方所有的樣子”

"The best relationship is that we've seen each other all the way, and then we accept each other."

關系貫穿著我們的人生，也決定我們的人生，中國的文化是最講關系的，一切都是關系，而在西方的文化里，主宰著他們文化的核心宗教基督教里最有名的一句話就是: ?宗教并不是宗教乃是關系，是人和上帝的關系.

The relationship runs through our lives, and also determines our life, Chinese culture values relations, everything is the relationship, and in Western culture, the core of their culture,?the most famous word in theChristianity ?is: religion is not an religion but an relationship ,is the ?relationship between man and God.

我們生活在關系里也掙扎在關系里，關系對了，一切就都在對的順位中，若與神與人的關系都美好順暢，那得多快樂自由，期待那一天的到來。 ? We live in relationships and struggle with relationships. when the relationship thing got right,then everything is in alignment with each other. once we get ?right with God and with man , we must feel so happy and free, ?looking forward to that day. that day shall come.

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