今天文章是講著名脫口秀主持奧普拉從魯蛇逆襲的演講，在其中我學醫一個非常重要的事情：所有人，無一例外，都渴望被理解和認可。所以，在交往交談時，永遠不要抱著舒服別人的心態。先認同傾聽別人。不然只會讓人逆反。
還有，最棒的一部分，她 to fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.
讀音
around英 [?'ra?nd]
failure['fe?lj?]
word
turn around扭轉局勢
stumble絆倒
hole [h??l]洞
be bound to 必然會
the Myth of Icarus伊卡洛斯神話
the law of averages事物的日常規律
divide分開
演講技巧：
1.好開頭2,重點重復3.要點停頓
句子
I will walk decisively. [d?'sa?s?vli]果斷的
At some point you are bound to stumble because if you’re constantly doing what we do, raising the bar. If you’re constantly** pushing yourself higher, higher **，the law of averages not to mention the Myth of Icarus predicts that you will at some point fall.
如果你像我們一樣，不斷追求higher，higher，按照事物發展規律一定會失敗。there is no such thing as failure. Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction. 沒有失敗。
When that moment comes, it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while,but then here’s the key, learn from every mistake because every experience, encounter, and mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move. And the key to life is to develop an internal moral, emotional G.P.S. that can tell you which way to go.當你失敗，情緒低落一會is ok,然后你要知道這失敗是使你學到東西，,使你更好的關鍵。
what is your true calling!what is your purpose!what is your dharma!找到自己內心真正想要。- BUT don’t expect the clarity to come all at once, to know your purpose right away。
There is no such things as failure .failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.
waht we want is we want to validated,we want to be understood.
人生目標 to fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.
從這篇演講真學到好多，總結一下：
- 如果想我沒一樣不斷追求突破，higher，higher，一定會遇到失敗，所以別擔心。沒有壞失敗，只有教你更好。
- 追隨你內心想要的，但別期待它一開始就出現。所以還是要不斷嘗試啊。
3.人們都會有被理解和認可的心。記住了！
4.人生目標： To fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.
