小時候特別喜歡看的電影就是簡.奧斯丁的《傲慢與偏見》，反復看了好多遍至今還是很喜歡，因為她堪稱經典中的經典。喜歡歐式的田園風格，喜歡純正的英倫口音，喜歡古典的高雅淳樸。有一些橋段現在仍然記憶猶新，電影中的Mr.達西先生也因此成為很多人白馬王子化身。
When i was a child i was particularly fond of watching the movie Jane. Austin's "Pride and Prejudice",now i still like it very much even already read it many times,it is called one of the most classic works.I like its European farmhouse style,like its pure British accent,like its classic elegance.Some episode are still fresh in memory,Mr.Darcy in the film also became charming prince for lots of people.
1 現實生活中存在傲慢與偏見，有可能嚴重影響到我們的生活，不僅阻礙了我們清醒的認知，還阻礙了我們的成長進步。
There is arrogance and prejudice in real life that can seriously affect our lives,not only hinder our awareness,but also hinder our growth and progress.
現實中的我們有傲慢與偏見，不僅僅在愛情里，也體現在生活的方方面面。
We have arrogance and prejudice in reality,not only in love,but also in all aspects of life.
《傲慢與偏見》里伊麗莎白初次見達西認為對方是傲慢的，達西也認為伊麗莎白的家庭沒有教養，兩人有了誤會和偏見。達西第一次求婚時，伊麗莎白說了很多傷人的話狠狠拒絕了他。直到后來慢慢認識到達西的高尚品格，開始尊敬他了，一直以來都是自己錯怪他了。誤會和偏見才慢慢消融，兩人相愛而結婚。
At "Pride and Prejudice"when Elizabeth first saw Darcy she judged him to be arrogant,while Darcy believed that Elizabeth's family is not good in behavior,they had misunderstanding and prejudice for each other.When Darcy proposed first time to Elizabeth,Elizabeth severely refused him and said a lot of wounding words.Until later she slowly realized the noble character of Darcy,and began to respect him,she had been misunderstanding and prejudice of him,the two cleared the misunderstanding and loved each other then got married.
因為傲慢我們拒絕了很多錯過了很多，因為偏見我們誤會了很多，看錯了很多，影響了我們的判斷。
Because of arrogance we refused a lot of things and miss a lot of opportunities,we misunderstood a lot,got wrongs a lot,it was affecting our judgments.
現實中也是這樣，一個朋友親戚給她介紹了一個男朋友，第一次約見面的經歷不是很愉快。男生遲到了，那天下著雨還沒帶傘。
It is similar in reality,there is a friend her relative introduce her a boyfriend,the first meeting experience was not very happy.The boy was late,and did not take the umbrella but it was raining outside.
因為這次印象后朋友覺得男生不太好，盡管雙方其實都還算優秀，最后還是不了了之。
Because of the impression my friend did not feel good about the boy,although they are both actually very good person,and finally there is no result.
“傲慢讓別人無法愛你，偏見讓你無法愛別人。”
有很多類似的經歷告訴我們有時候是被傲慢偏見蒙蔽了雙眼，因而無法接近美好的事物。如果沒有放下評判，不懂從容接納，理解包容，多給一次機會，就無法成就美好。
"Pride makes others unable to love you,and prejudice makes you unable to love others."There are many similar experiences tell us that we are sometimes blinded by arrogance and can not get close to the good things.If you do not put down the judgement,do not understand and accept others,do not give understanding and tolerance,and give more of a chance,you can not reach good things.
2如果不是比較嚴重，觸及底線和違背原則的事我們還是可以接受的。像一些無關乎大事的小錯誤，有時候不去計較，放寬心，多接納包容，反而是一個人大度的高尚品質，才能有好結果。
If it is not too serious things or hitting the bottom line and contrary to the basic principles we can still accept them.Like some small things that do not affect to reach big things,sometimes we do not need to care about them,take it easy,give more tolerance,on the contrary it reflects a person of noble character.And will have good result.
我們有個客戶要求我們的產品質量都是高端一級的。一次不小心我們做錯了，因為交代了很多次的一個細節，我們還是沒有做好。
We have a customer require our product to be high quality. We did wrong one time carelessly, the details were told many times,but we still did not do well.
客戶生氣了，不希望有這種事情發生。我們很緊張，擔心他不和我們合作了。
Our customer was angry and did not want this kind of thing happened.We are very nervous,worried that he did not want to cooperate with us.
盡管如此，客戶居然和我們說，我給你們反映這個問題，不是以后不給你們生產，是要讓你們注意，你們還是可以繼續做，我只是讓你們知道正確的做法，下次不要出現這個問題就可以了。
However,our customer told that it did not mean i didn't want to give you order,i just told you this problem to let you pay attention,you can still continue to produce, I just let you know the correct way,and next time will be all right if they do not have this problem.
于是我們感慨，客戶的不拘小節 。因為我們確實出現了錯誤，然而客戶沒有計較，只是告訴我們下次要注意。我們后來合作了好多年都很愉快，一直都沒有換過供應商。
So we feel our customer was not punctilious.We did have a mistake,but our customer just told us to pay attention next time and did not trifle with us.So we have been working together for many years and are very happy,he did not change supplier all this time.
3可以說我們每個人或多或少的都存在傲慢與偏見，不僅我們自己有偏見，也有其他人的偏見，我們對待事情要有一個清醒的認識，避免受傲慢和偏見干擾。
It can be said that everyone of us have arrogance and prejudice more or less, not only prejudice of our own,but also prejudice from other people, we must have clear understanding of things to avoid arrogance and prejudice.
我們年輕一代的大學生來到城市里工作，根還沒扎穩，骨子里還受著農村老一輩的思想影響，在世俗里存在著很多偏見，比如
我們現在雖然在男女平等的今天，仍然有重男輕女的偏見。比如前幾天發生的榆林孕婦跳樓事件，也是因為愚昧的認為無痛分娩會影響孩子，傻乎乎堅持順產，造成孕婦跳樓的慘狀。
Our young generation of college students came to work in the city, the root is not stable,in their bones they are affected by the older generation of rural thought,there are many prejudices in the secular, for example in the equality of men and women today,there are people still prefer boys to girls.Such as a few days ago the Yulin pregnant women jumping event, it was because the ignorance thoughtthat painless childbirth will affect the child, silly adhere to the natural childbirth,and caused the pregnant women jumping to death.
如果我們的觀點會造成不良后果，就不要堅持自以為是，如果我們想法不能讓自己進步，那就要考慮這是不是因為偏見，如果我們某一方面一直做不好，那在這個領域，我們看事情的第一反應，很大可能就是偏見。
If our point of view will cause bad consequences, do not insist that yourself is right, if we can not make ourselves progress, it is necessary to consider if it is prejudice, if we have been doing in a certain field for a long time without result, then in this field,the first reaction we see things is likely to be prejudice.
4學習與偏見作斗爭，弱小和無知不是生存和發展的障礙，傲慢與偏見才是。
Learning to fight with prejudice, weak and ignorance is not obstacle to survival and development, arrogance and prejudice is.
當你看到有人勇于突破自己而取得難以想象的進步，你就會感嘆思想的偉大。我們急需要認識自己的觀點和想法，不斷的調整和更正，使之適應變化和發展的腳步。
When you see someone daring to break through of their own and make unimaginable progress, you will shocked the greatness of thought. We need to know our own ideas, constantly adjust and correct them to adapt the changes and the pace of development.
要勇于站在時代前沿和跟上大城市的發展潮流，吸收創新的思想，取得前所未有的突破。只有正確的想法才能引領我們走向一個更廣闊的天空，獲得更多美好和未來。
Stand at front of the times and keep up with the development trend of big cities, absorb the idea of innovation, make an unprecedented breakthrough. Only the right idea can lead us to a broader sky,and get more beautiful things and future.
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