十三
打卡，《一輩子的活法》
每個時代都有每個時代的特點，1949-1957年之間，王蒙的生活小資愜意，充滿著美好與幸福，也許因為年少，17-19的年齡一切都是美好的，男女之間的情竇初開也是那么的美好，充滿快樂，一個人的成長終究是外界塑造的為主，自我進步為輔！
肖欣
打卡《別對我撒謊》這本書正是這樣的一部作品。故事展現了一幅小鎮畫卷，從三個分支（苔絲、瑞秋、塞利西亞）看似各自獨立的生活中，鋪陳兩條時間線，創造人物之間的交集和對彼此命運的影響。許許多多看似有關又無關的小事，樹立了形形色色的人物形象。作者并沒有極大渲染“命運”的存在，卻在勾畫“性格”特點的同時，將偶然都變成了必然，然后在最后尾聲階段把視角突然抬高，居高臨下地用寥寥幾筆給予讀者更大的嘆息——從未有人知道真相，造化弄人，最終也只有接受，并找到自我疏導的路。
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打卡 《這個世界，沒那么簡單》12%
維度不僅從空間上考慮 還能從思維上考慮 當今社會處理事物考慮高維度已是社會發展大趨勢
例如5W1H指who when what where why how六個維度
一件事的解決可以優先考慮不同維度 有些問題的維度非常復雜
不能簡單一刀切 但也有些問題涉及的維度想對單一
反而適合一刀切 通常要治理涉及全社會的基礎性問題
可以從簡單維度入手 一刀切下去 干脆利落。
1維度有優先順序
要從最有效的維度入手
2當優先維度完全失效時
應由次重要維度取代成為優先維度
3優先維度難以獨自完成任務時
就需要引入更多的維度、更多的力量-這是普遍法則 也是個人和社會向前發展的必然要求
綾波尼
打卡，《西方哲學史》
笛卡爾是個有趣的人，天賦異稟且勤于思考。我思故我在，就是他對于莊周夢蝶的解釋，盡管他最后又回到了上帝的范疇，但是他的質疑精神卻為后面的人提供了方案。我們的感官到底是不是真實的？黑客帝國，楚門的世界，盜夢空間都是一種看法。（在此之前，我一直以為笛卡爾是個數學家……）
奧茲
打卡 【I suck at girls】 書摘 But we’re complex animals, and we’re constantly changing. Things I
thought ten years ago seem like absolute bullshit now. So there’s no scientific formula to predict
how things are going to work out with a marriage, because a marriage in year
one is completely different from the same marriage ten years later. So when
you’re dealing with something incredibly unpredictable, like human beings,
numbers and formulas don’t mean shit. The best you can do is take all the
information you have and, scientifically speaking, do what?”
“So I’ll tell
you what I did right before I asked your mother to marry me: I took a day and I
sat and I thought about all the things I had learned about myself, and about
women, up to that point in my life. Just sat and thought. I may have smoked
marijuana as well. Anyway, at the end of the day, I took stock of everything
I’d gone through in my head, and I asked myself if I still wanted to propose to
your mother. And I did. So that’s what I humbly suggest you do,
Nicole’s rejection didn’t sting quite as
much as I expected, and the only reason I could figure was because for the
first time that night, I had done exactly what I wanted to do.
A rite of passage I’d expected to mean so
much had left me feeling no different at all. I had no idea when I would feel
like a man, or what it would take. All I could safely say was that I was a boy
who had had sex, and was really, really good at washing dishes, and that would
have to be enough for now.
But I have never seen a human being drive
himself more batshit than you when it’s time to make a decision. Every time you
order lunch it’s like you’re presiding over the fucking Cuban missile crisis.”
Someday you’re gonna go stupid for a woman.
And when you do, do me this one favor: don’t get all caught up in the bullshit
that’s going on in your head. If it’s right, then you put on your fuckin’ big-boy
pants and you go for it.”
“But when you
go into an experiment and you’re abso-fucking-lutely sure you’re going to be
right, the experiment inevitably goes to shit, because you’re not prepared for
anything unexpected. Then, when something fucked-up does happen—and it will—you
either don’t see it, or you just pretend like it never happened because you
refuse to believe you could have fucked up. And you know what that does?” he
asked. “Ruins your experiment?”“Bingo. So the only way to run an experiment
successfully is to start by accepting the fact that your experiment might
fail.”
“Well, you
don’t need to get sed and go to Europe to do that. You’re over six feet tall
and your mom says you’re funny. I’d say run with those two things and see where
it gets you.”
