我希望你遭遇不公——這位父親居然在兒子畢業(yè)典禮上如此說(shuō)

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今年6月初,美國(guó)最高法院首席大法官約翰·羅伯茨(John Roberts)來(lái)到新罕布什爾州的卡迪根山中學(xué)(Cardigan Mountain School),參加兒子的初中畢業(yè)典禮,并發(fā)表演講。

這篇演講當(dāng)時(shí)并沒(méi)有引起轟動(dòng),但近日《華盛頓郵報(bào)》(Washington Post)把其中的金句挖掘了出來(lái),竟引發(fā)美國(guó)媒體和社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)的瘋狂轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)。

From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice.
我希望在未來(lái)歲月中,你能時(shí)不時(shí)地遭遇不公,唯有如此,你才能懂得公正的價(jià)值。


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I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty.
我希望你嘗到背叛的滋味,這樣你才能領(lǐng)悟到忠誠(chéng)之重要。
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Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted.
抱歉,我還希望你們時(shí)常感到孤獨(dú),唯有如此,你才不會(huì)視朋友為理所當(dāng)然。


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I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either.
我祝你們偶爾運(yùn)氣不佳,這樣你才會(huì)意識(shí)到機(jī)遇在人生中扮演的角色,從而明白你的成功并非天經(jīng)地義,而他人的失敗也不是命中注定。


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And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship.
當(dāng)你偶爾失敗時(shí),我愿你的對(duì)手時(shí)不時(shí)地會(huì)幸災(zāi)樂(lè)禍。這樣你才能懂得互相尊重的競(jìng)技精神的重要。
I hope you’ll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others.
我希望你被人無(wú)視,唯有如此,你才懂得傾聽(tīng)他人有多重要。
And I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion.
我祝你感受足夠的痛楚來(lái)學(xué)會(huì)同情。
約翰·羅伯茨還評(píng)論了一下演講嘉賓們愛(ài)對(duì)畢業(yè)生說(shuō)的一句話:"做自己""Being yourself"-----Unless you are perfect, it does not mean don’t make any changes.除非你完美無(wú)瑕,那么這句話絕不意味著不去改變自己。

他鼓勵(lì)畢業(yè)生們思考自己想成為什么樣的人,這樣才能真正地“做自己”。
他引用蘇格拉底的話說(shuō):
“The unexamined life is not worth living.”
未經(jīng)自省的人生沒(méi)有意義。
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