題目：今天，真誠(chéng)的說(shuō)出一句“謝謝”！

Why don't?we ask for the things that we need?

Why wouldn't I?say:"would you praise me ?"

——because I am giving your data about me,I?am telling you where I am insecure,I am telling you where I need your help.

我為什么說(shuō)不出：我想要贊美呢？

——因?yàn)槲艺嬖V你我的關(guān)鍵核心，我不安全，需要你的幫助。

I am treating your like the circle but like you are the enemy,because what can you do with that data ?

——you could neglect me ,you could abuse it?or you could actually meet my need.

我待你如核心使得你成為了我的敵人，你怎樣處理這信息呢？

——你可能忽視，可能濫用，但是你也可以滿足我。

tip：內(nèi)心的不安全感使我們?cè)谛枰獎(jiǎng)e人贊美的時(shí)候選擇了沉默，真誠(chéng)面對(duì)心底需要的贊美吧，同時(shí)也給這個(gè)世界釋放一點(diǎn)善意。