題目:今天,真誠的說出一句“謝謝”!
Why don't?we ask for the things that we need?
Why wouldn't I?say:"would you praise me ?"
——because I am giving your data about me,I?am telling you where I am insecure,I am telling you where I need your help.
我為什么說不出:我想要贊美呢?
——因為我正告訴你我的關鍵核心,我不安全,需要你的幫助。
I am treating your like the circle but like you are the enemy,because what can you do with that data ?
——you could neglect me ,you could abuse it?or you could actually meet my need.
我待你如核心使得你成為了我的敵人,你怎樣處理這信息呢?
——你可能忽視,可能濫用,但是你也可以滿足我。
tip:內心的不安全感使我們在需要別人贊美的時候選擇了沉默,真誠面對心底需要的贊美吧,同時也給這個世界釋放一點善意。