Yes,he's just not that into you.however,he's just been deep inside of you.
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看完這部電影說實話感覺不過是再警醒自己一次,畢竟很多事自己心知肚明,只是不愿承認接受它。
這三年,我替他找了多少借口來說服自己,又聽了多少這樣那樣的歌來找自己的故事。
當你開始懷疑,開始做各種測試,或者,因為片名看這部電影的時候,事實就擺在你面前了,他不喜歡你,至少沒那么喜歡,哪有那么多失憶癥,哪里就那么碰巧發(fā)生在他身上,不管是有意還是故意把你忘記,都證明了他的不在乎,他沒那么喜歡你。
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I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there too much, but at least that means I still care. Oh, you think you’ve won because women are expendable to you? You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way, but you don’t fall in love that way either. You have not won, you’re alone, Alex. I may do a lot of stupid shit, but I know I’m a lot closer to finding someone than you are.
我就是喜歡剖析每個小動作,自己添油加醋的亂想,但這至少說明我在乎。你覺得你把女人玩弄于鼓掌之中就算是大贏家了?那樣你或許可以避免受傷,也不會出糗,但你永遠不會得到真愛。你沒有贏,你仍是孤身一人,Alex。我可能是干了許多蠢事,但我很清楚我比你離真愛更近。
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Gigi說的話很對,當你開始在乎開始用心的時候其也許對于不喜歡你的人來說是很無謂很愚蠢的但是在愛里連真心都不能給不是更可笑嗎?
對喜歡的人不管是還愛著亦或心已死總之他讓你成為更好的人往更好的方向靠近同時也讓你更靠近那個對的人,不管結(jié)果如何,謝謝他,畢竟曾經(jīng)我那么用心。
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Every movie we see, every story we’re told, implores us to wait for it. The third act twist. The unexpected declaration of love. The exception to the rule. But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending, we don’t learn how to read the signs, how to tell the ones who want us from the ones who don’t, the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave. And maybe this happy ending doesn’t include a wonderful guy. Maybe it’s you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this: Knowing that through all the unreturned phone calls, and broken hearts, through all the blunders and misread signals, through all of the pain and embarrassment, you never, ever gave up hope.
我們看過的每一部電影,聽過的每一個故事,都叫到我們?nèi)サ却鎼邸D墙?jīng)典三段式、意想不到的告白、相信自己是那個例外。但有時我們太過于專注最后的好結(jié)果,以致忽略了身邊的那些信號,忘了怎樣去分辨那些真正想要和我們在一起的人和遲早會離開我們的人。或許有的完美結(jié)局里并沒有男主人公。或許你就能靠你自己,整理碎片,重新開始,輕松淡定只為更美好的未來。可能那個完美的結(jié)局就是,向前走。又或許完美結(jié)局是這樣的:在經(jīng)歷了無數(shù)次的拒絕,傷心,無數(shù)次的自作多情,和數(shù)不清的痛苦和尷尬之后,你依舊滿懷希冀。
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如果最后我們沒在一起,你要知道,不是我不喜歡你了,而是失望已經(jīng)攢夠,我必須要離開你,才對得起所以有關(guān)心我的人。
舍不舍得都斷了吧。
當斷不斷,必受其亂。